I'd say there is something funky going on if you are on top of the list and have not heard anything. They might be inserting people in front of you who might be willing to pay more than MSRP...
I was #4 at a small dealer and got my 111 on 1/28.
That's BS about cars getting damaged and supply being affected significantly. Official memo says only 30 M3s were lost there, which were PR cars. I guess they still need to be rebuilt though. Regardless, they should be shipping 100s of M3s to the US per month soon.