Originally Posted by Billup
I am 150% self efficient and don't have to rely on anyone for anything, and I've worked to hard to get where I am, to have someone stress me out more often than not because of things I do or things I say. Especially when I am putting my life on hold to move her out here so she can go to college and get a degree? Shes already said she feels "trapped" or "fucked over", then doesn't realize how that would sound if I said that to her. Its one sided.
I think it is safe to assume the thought has already crossed your mind to part ways at this point. This is going to be the better time to break it off before you move her out to your new location and she becomes more reliant on you, especially if she feels "trapped" by all of this. Who knows, it could maybe go the other way and strengthen the relationship between the two of you.