If you are having thoughts now... may as well go ahead and do it. The sooner the better for you. The less time you are married the less $$$ you are on the hook for. It is a difficult decision but one that a lot of people ahve made and are better off for. You won't be able to change her or her attitude. I wish you luck. I went through a divorce after 2.5 years of marriage. I got married at 22 and officially divorced at 26... it isn't fun but I am way better off after her and I really did find someoe I can really relate to and look forward to seeing every day.
Originally Posted by fireline43
Man, i have to say i've been having the ideas of divorce after 2 1/2 years of marriage. It just seems like we are not going in a good direction or have the same goals in life. My wife has gone through 3 jobs so far, quitting 2 and getting fired from one. She does not contribute whatsover to the home chores. No cooking or cleaning. When she stays at home, she just sits on the couch watching tv. I work my job, come home and cook dinner and clean up every day.
I've even just gave up at point and didn't do anything, I held out a month, but once the bathroom starts molding and crap, i mean come on. I feel I married a loser. She doesn't even want children, which i think would be her savior to hide behind.
I'm scard of divorce like people have talked about here though, because of how bad it can be financially and with her not having a stable job, I feel like I'd just have to pay for her. It's like I'm at the point I could care less being with women anymore (not turning gay), just living alone. I did it a couple years before her and was pretty happy.