Originally Posted by gatorfast
Maybe in high school women like jerks but that is certainly is not true later in life. Having a good career and being respectful carries much more weight when women are looking to get serious.
Maybe the whores that hang out at the trashy clubs/bars like jerks but any girl that's marriage material probably doesn't.
It works perfectly fine later in life.. I'm in my 30s its going just fine.
But I think you misunderstand it, its not to the point of being a jerk. But not wearing your heart on your sleeve and learning to become the object that they are reaching for not vice versa.
If you are too nice you'll end up in the friend zone and if you're a complete tool you'll only get club rats. So its learning how to walk in the middle and when to walk away.