I would agree that I lost couple of opportunities just cuz I was responsive & showed good interest. She thought I was clingy.
But now, even though I like her I would act like I m not too much. Responding to texts with a 20-30min delay and not revealing too much at same time. Just engage her enough so she'll come back. It works for me!!
It is about keeping the right slack, not too tight & not too saggy.
2016 F10 535 - Current
2014 F30 -> SOLD
2013 F30 -> SOLD
2007 E90 -> SOLD