so the only way to get out of paying alimony is if she gets remarried or she disappears right?
Prenups are the way to go.
If you don't pay alimony, i assume it's like any other debt? and simply hurts your credit/goes to collections right?
Find a family member you trust and just give him/her all the cash you get. then claim bankruptcy. Should clear the debt right?
I know nothing about alimonies :/. And hope to never need to find out