Originally Posted by jzchen
I only read your first post, (sorry.)
Don't end the marriage. Follow the vow you made when you got married, assuming that is you said until death.... (I don't know what religion, if any, you follow, but I am following mine to great effect...)
I'm not sure what is making you unhappy, you only mention about her job and money....
Sounds like he put years (arguably TOO much time) into making it work. Life is far too short to be unhappy or live for the pleasure of another at the expense of your own. Sounds like she broke her vows first- to love, honor and cherish, to have and to hold.