Originally Posted by sohcpunk
Since you work in software development. Have you ever considered working as a contractor and not reporting any cash payments?
I thought about it but it doesn't work that way. I can not stop making alimony payments just because I lost my job. I have file t court and have to prove that I lost my job unintentionally and can't find another job. My likely the judge won't be convinced because this is the most common way of getting out of alimony. Maybe and only maybe after a long time of not having a job can give you break on alimony payments but during that time period you will still have to make the payments.