Originally Posted by carve
LOL- there's nothing wrong with YOU dating an overweight girl because that clearly isn't one of your needs. For me, it's a deal-breaker. Not only does it dramatically reduce my physical attraction, but it tells me something about the respect she has for her own body, her will-power, and how likely she's able to keep up with me. I don't want a girl who'll lose weight because i want her to- I want her to take care of herself because it's important to HER. If she can't take care of herself now, it's even less likely she'll be able to as she ages. If you're willing to accept that limitation, that's fine.
It is one of my needs but most women naturally gain weight after babys and age. In the summer she looks great at 115 but at winter I prefer her at 125..lol. Off topic here but lap band is great! Skinny till death do us apart..
Its one of the best investments I've ever made, even over my lasik surgery.