I would send them back and get a new system from a manufacturer that knows their stuff! You should not have to go through this much trouble.
'08 E90 M3 - Alpine White - Sold
'13 E92 M3 - Silverstone II - Sold
'04 E46 M3 - Jet Black - BBS E88, KW Clubsports, Brembo BBK, SuperSprint Exhaust