I would send them back and get a new system from a manufacturer that knows their stuff! You should not have to go through this much trouble.
'04 E46 M3 - Jet Black - Sold
'08 E90 M3 - Alpine White - Sold
'13 E92 M3 - Silverstone II - Sold
'13 E92 M3 - Alpine White - Ohlins TTX, Fall-Line Suspension Arms/Bushings, AP Racing BBK, GTS Aero, Cobra Seats, Akrapovic Evo, BBS E88