Okay so here's my thinking.. I'll live with it for a week, because I've found a few other MR with matte black wheels and they look good, so MAYBE my camera is just making it look bad. I'll give it a week..
Now, in a week, since I'm probably going to peel off the plastidip anyway, and I have 3 gallons of white plastidip.. I'll do the entire car matte white for the hell of it. Go from there.