I'll admit that I don't put my top down as much as I should. Anything over 90 degrees is too hot for the top down IMO. You basically get roasted which isn't an enjoyable experience. Too cold is not fun either. And as far as girls loving the top being down, I've found that a lot of girls don't like it because it messes up their hair. I do love having the option of dropping the top and will do so when the weather is good. The extra weight is a non factor for what I use the car for.
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