OP ur overthinking shit.
Stop putting emphasis on the fact that she rejected you when u tried to fuck/finger/destroy her vagina on a 2nd date. A lot of women will do, they simply haven't build up enough trust in you yet to do such things (unless you're really good at talking or they're a slut). Which neither of them seem to be the case right now.
Just text her saying "so when am i getting the ride in the new beast?
" even if its a prius.