Haha 335 lurker here...speaking of fiances, when I got my car in Dec. after a month she said she couldn't believe I never asked her if she wanted to drive my car, but it's ok. After about 6 mos. with the car I asked her if she wanted to drive, and she said NO! She said just the fact that I asked her was good enough. Women!! When I first let her drive my other car which is a 5-spd Japanese, I watched her left foot while at a stoplight....didn't press on it and left it in neutral...bonus!