I live in Sacramento and she lives in San Francisco. W/ no traffic and "speeding" she is 1hr 15 min away. Average takes 2.5 hours with traffic to drive 103 miles one way counting toll traffic. We talk and text all the time. Try to see each other 1-3 times a week. Possible not to see her for two weeks at a time.
She has also driven up to visit me twice in the month's time I have known her.