OP: I had a very similar experience. The website said I had ordered a Moonroof when I hadn't. When my SA wasn't available, I called BMW Customer Service (800-831-1117) and spoke to a "Live" Human Being and explained my concern. They asked for my Production Number and pulled up the Build Sheet. They confirmed all of my options and said the website is often incorrect. I took Euro Delivery and the Car was exactly how I had ordered it.
I am sure everything is ok but if you want you can call BMW Customer Service.
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