I just bought an illuminated ZHP off of ebay (it came with the M 6-spd insert too) for a little over $100, although I haven't installed it yet, as I'm trying to get the boot issue worked out. I've been off and on thinking of getting the Rogue Octane, figure I can install it when I install my exhaust (haven't bought that yet either).
I trade time between my E90 and S2000, and I curse the shifter in the M3 everytime I get in the S2K. That car has THE best shifter ever, imo. I also installed a set of ultimate pedals, and h&t is much easier now for me.