Originally Posted by richpuer
Yep this is so true...i used to make excuses or give reasons as to why i did something that got her mad...well, that would just cause her to respond and me not liking that response would respond again with something else to counter that response...it goes on back and forth.....now, when i do something that pissed her off, i just say "you know what baby, i fucked up...i really did, and im sorry ill remember it for the future." WHAT THE FUCK can she say to me now?? if she keeps digging at me and i got nothing to say, who looks like the idiot now? ahahahaha
Well... the other side of it is that if you don't stand up for yourself they will lose interest in you and think you are a wimp. I think you have to very carefully choose your battles.