Originally Posted by richpuer
No offense OP, and i mean this sincerely, but do you think that maybe you fighting to death is what got you here in the first place? You know, women are seriously SERIOUSLY emotional wrecks...anyone who's married can attest to this but sometimes to "fight" them, you kinda have to Not fight...regardless of how right you know you are deep down inside....you get what i mean? I was like you before...always had to have my say and get my point across...if she said something i didnt like or agree to, i had to counter it.....the wife and I, we would just play ping pong all day long...until one day, i got sick and tired of all the bickering, i just said u know what honey? You are right, i am wrong...im sorry...and it was DONE...no more fighting, talks of divorce, etc etc..and its quiet now...women want to fight, cause drama or controversy, especially women in todays age...DONT give them the satisfaction...its not a matter of pride or right or wrong...most of the time, men are right because we have less hormones and think more rationally...but to voice your rightness to a woman that is your wife, you're just asking for it.
I guess I misunderstood your comments. I apoligize for that.
I totally agree with you on avoiding fights. Looks like I have the same type of relation that you had (constant fighting, arguing...) Thatís why I want to end it. But I just can not picture my life time hard work would eventually make her life better, not mine. It is really tough to swallow.