Originally Posted by carve
Hmmmm...assuming you have a lot of money, put enough for college into a trust fund for your daughter, hide as much as you can in a swiss account, get yourself fired, get a job that pays similar to your wife, find a low-paying job close to home, and tell your wife you'll look for a better job when she does.
She's probably doesn't like you any more than you like her, so once the gravy train runs dry she'll hook up with some other human wallet.
Are you self employed? If so, if you get remarried, 'sell' the business to your new wife and have her pay you, say, $20k per year. I know someone who has done this.
Or, if you want to try to make it work, I know someone this worked for.
Quit your jobs and sell your stuff. Buy a sailboat and cruise around the Carribean for a year. Start over.
I hate when people say this! Getting 50% of 100k is better then 50% of 20k.
Originally Posted by silvergray545
If you have to pay 1-2k in consultations to find out you may have to pay less than 56k a year sounds worth it to me.
When I get married, I'm making that bitch sign a prenup.
That is the only way I am getting married again.
Originally Posted by mylydiamy
I hear you. Unfortunately I am not self employed.
But the lawyer said that even if I quit my job she would still get alimony because I have potential of getting similar paying jobs.
This is very true. Sucks bro. I know when I was going through my divorce the first thing I thought was that I was going to have sell my bimmer and my house and get an apartment and chevy colbolt.