Wow, so he sold it. I spotted that car several months ago and posted in the TX spotted thread. It had aftermarket wheels on it at the time but that's definitely the one. Scott@bmwhn knew based on my description that it was an S3-R but the owner never chimed in at all.
I was going to say that I wonder why he sold it so soon but based on the posts above, I'm guessing that it may have something to do with whatever damage was done to the car. I guess we'll probably never know...